T-girl relationships. How’s this supposed to work?

I’m struggling a little bit here and not with writer’s block. Just with this whole scene in general. It’s a little goofed up. So many of us submissive guys who are crazy about tgirls want them to top us and the really hot ones just want to be girls and be topped by guys who probably would just as soon be topping a cis-girl. Now tell me that’s not a recipe for general unhappiness all around!

Sure there are some exceptions to this rule, as there are in all situations, but not many. I believe my muse and general all round hot blonde Foxy Angel is a top that likes being a top. If she bottoms for a boyfriend I’ve never witnessed it in a picture or video.

Things are changing pretty fast and in the future there might be more men comfortable with a really hot girl no matter what her equipment may be. That would help out the new girls and make it easier for them to find acceptance and dates. But what about guys like me?

I understand how if you are wanting to become a girl you would want to distance yourself from all things male. And that especially includes the penis that most separates you from your desired state of being and everything that comes with it. That is the physical aspect and as a species we definitely judge a book by the cover so the cover has to look and feel like a female. This all makes complete sense and let me say that I really appreciate all the hard work you ladies put into the cover art!

Some subs are pretty zealous, looking more for a mistress than a girlfriend who can top them and I can see where that would be a turnoff, but I’d wager there are fair number of men who want an equal in life and a top (or equal) in the bedroom. If you know what you want to become please don’t take this as me trying to sway you. That’s not what I’m trying to do. However, if you’re a t-girl who is not sure about going all the way, I want to encourage you that there are guys out here who are thrilled with you being the ‘third’ sex. Embrace what you are now and wrap it in a thick layer of confidence, because your confidence is what really gets us guys or girls turned on!  I don’t give two hoots in hell what’s between your legs, if you’ve got confidence in your eyes and actions. Sexy will ooze from your pores and that confidence will be the chariot that takes any girl from meh to sexy quicker than the new Dodge Demon will get you a speeding ticket.

Guys, if you want to help these incredible ladies find that confidence you have to do your part too. Treat them as the beautiful women they appear to be and then embrace whatever other treasures they may have to share with you. If we all work together we can create an environment free of guilt and judgement. Then when boy meets girl, they both part with a big smile on their faces.

 

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R.U. Wild

If you have stumbled onto this site you most likely know who I am. But just in case you don’t, I’m a mid-western farm boy that has a deep interest in dominant women with a penis. I like to write fantasy stories about them dominating men to entertain other people who share my interest. I like lots of other things, but this is the only one I write about. If you haven’t read any of my stories you can find some for free on Literotica.com or for sale on Smashwords and Amazon. As much as I like to make money I’d suggest you read some free ones before you pay for any. Thanks for any support you might give me and for checking out my blog.

2 thoughts on “T-girl relationships. How’s this supposed to work?”

  1. Very well said, hon. I think you’re right about that need to distance ourselves from all things male, and I know being a bottom is part of my own submissive identity. Having said that, I also share your desire to be topped by a dominant tgirl, which is like wanting your cake and eating it too.

    I like what you say about confidence, and I agree that can make a world of difference, but it is your honest appreciation that speaks loudest to me. If more men could be like yourself, admit to what they want and not be afraid to share that relationship with the world, we’d all have a much easier time connecting.

    1. Thanks for the reply Sally and I agree with what you said as well. Maybe it will happen one day, but it may be long after I’ve reached my expiration date.

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